Hamare desh mein betiyan ek bohot bada mahatv rakhti hai. Lekin kayi baar beti ko bachana bhi zaruri hota hai. Isliye, hamare pradhanmantri Shri Narendra Modi ji ne “Beti Bachao Beti Padhao” abhiyan chalaya hai. Is abhiyan ke zariye, hamari samaj mein beti ki mahatv ko badhaya ja raha hai. Iske alawa beti ke padhne ki bhi zarurat hai, isliye abhiyan ke naam ke saath “Beti Padhao” shabd bhi hai. Iss article mein hum issi vishay par kuch baat karenge aur batayenge ki kaise beti ko bachaya ja sakta hai aur kaise unki padhai ka khayal rakha ja sakta hai.
Beti Bachao: Iski Zarurat Kyu Padti hai?
Hamare desh mein beti ko lekar kuch logon ke man mein galat bhavana hoti hai. Unhe lagta hai ki beti paraye ghar mein jaa kar apne maayke ki taraf nahi aani chahiye, balki uska ghar hi uska sab kuch hai. Kayi baar beti ki zindagi ke pehle kuch saal mein hi unhe khud hi apne aap ko ladki hone se giraftaar kar lena padta hai. Iske peeche kayi wajah ho sakti hai, jaise ki:
- Ladki ka janam hote hi uski antim sanskaar tak ke liye paise ikattha karne ki jarurat hoti hai.
- Shaadi ke liye ladki ke maata-pita ko dher saari denik samagri deni padti hai.
- Ladki ke parivar ke doston aur rishtedaaron ke liye bhi bahut saari kharch hoti hai.
In sabhi chizon ke chalte, logon ko lagta hai ki beti ek bojh hai. Iske saath hi, kayi baar log beti ko paida karne se inkar kar dete hai, ya fir uska janm lene ke baad usse maar daal dete hai. Iske alawa, kayi jagahon par beti ki padhai par bhi sahi se dhyan nahi diya jaata hai, kyonki logon ko lagta hai ki padhai karne se beti ka ghar se bahar jana zaruri ho jaata hai.
Beti Bachao: Kaise Bachaye Betiyan?
Beti ko bachana ek bohot zaruri kaam hai, aur iske liye kuch tarike hai, jinhe hum aage batayenge:
1. Beti Ko Janam Dene Se Inkar Na Karein
Beti ko janam dene se inkar karna ek bohot badi galti hai. Beti ek bohot badi khushi ka hissa hoti hai, aur uske janam se puri duniya khush hoti hai. Isliye, beti ke janam se inkaar nahi karna chahiye.
2. Beti Ka Padhna-Likhna Zaruri Hai
Beti ka padhna likhna ek bohot zaruri kaam hai. Iske alawa beti ko achhi padhai dena bhi zaruri hai, jisse vo aage badh sake aur apne sapne poore kar sake. Beti ko padhane ke liye school aur college bhi zaruri hai. Isliye, beti ki padhai par dhyan dena chahiye.
3. Beti Ko Samajh Mein Laye
Beti ki zindagi mein sabse bada sawal hota hai ki “Main Kaun Hoon?” Is sawal ka jawab dena ek bohot zaruri kaam hai. Beti ko samajh mein laye aur usse apne haq ke baare mein bataye. Beti ko bataiye ki vo bhi duniya ke hisse ki hai, aur vo bhi samaan roop se padh sakti hai.
4. Beti Ke Sapne Poore Karne Mein Sahayata Kare
Beti ke sapne poore karne mein sahayata karna bhi zaruri hai. Beti ka sapna kuch bhi ho sakta hai, chahe vo doctor banana ho ya engineer. Beti ke sapne ko pura karne mein uski sahayata karna chahiye, taaki vo aage badh sake aur apne sapne poore kar sake.
5. Beti Ke Haq Par Zor De
Beti ke haq par zor dena bhi zaruri hai. Beti ko achhi padhai deni chahiye, uska haq hai. Iske alawa beti ko ek achha job bhi chahiye. Beti ko apni zindagi khud jeene ka haq hai, isliye usse uska haq dilwana bhi zaruri hai.
Beti Padhao: Kaise Kare Beti Ki Padhai Ka Khayal
Beti ko padhane ke liye kayi baar ghar mein dhan-daulat ki kami hoti hai, jiske chalte beti ki padhai par dhyan nahi diya jaata hai. Iske alawa, kuch logon ko lagta hai ki beti ko padhane se unka paisa barbaad ho jaayega. Is sabhi chizon ke chalte, beti ki padhai par dhyan dena bohot zaruri hai. Iske liye kuch tarike hai, jinhe hum aage batayenge:
1. Beti Ko School Bhejna Zaruri Hai
Beti ko school bhejna ek bohot zaruri kaam hai. Iske alawa, beti ko ek achha school bhi chahiye. School mein achhi padhai ke saath-saath beti ko ek achha character bhi milta hai. Isliye, beti ko school bhejna zaruri hai.
2. Beti Ko Padhane Ke Liye Sahayata Kare
Beti ki padhai ke liye sahayata karna bhi zaruri hai. Agar ghar mein koi bhi padhne mein sahayata nahi de raha hai, toh aap beti ko padhane ke liye sahayata kare. Iske alawa beti ko library aur computer par bhi padhne ke liye sahayata kare.
3. Beti Ko Scholarship Ke Liye Apply Karaye
Beti ko scholarship ke liye apply karana bhi ek achha tareeka hai uski padhai ke liye. Scholarship ke madhyam se beti ki padhai ki lagat kam ho sakti hai, aur vo bina kisi pareshani ke padhai kar sakti hai.
4. Beti Ko Motivate Kare
Beti ki padhai par dhyan dena hi kaafi nahi hai, beti ko motivate karna bhi zaruri hai. Beti ko bataye ki vo kisi se kam nahi hai, aur vo apni padhai mein kamyab ho sakti hai. Iske liye usse motivate karna bhi zaruri hai.
5. Beti Ko Career Counselling De
Beti ki padhai ke baad uski career bhi zaruri hai. Isliye, beti ko career counselling bhi deni chahiye. Beti ko bataye ki vo kis field mein apna career banana chahti hai, aur uske liye kya kya karna hoga.
Conclusion
Beti bachao beti padhao ek bohot zaruri abhiyan hai, jisme betiyon ko padhaya jaata hai. Beti ko padhane ke liye kayi tariko ka istemaal kiya ja sakta hai. Iske alawa beti ko motivate karna aur uske sapne poore karne mein sahayata karna bhi zaruri hai. Beti ko padhane ke liye sahi samay par shuruwaat kare, aur usse achhe school mein bheje. Iske alawa beti ko scholarship ke liye apply karaye aur usse career counselling de. Beti ki padhai aur sapno ko pura karne mein aapki sahayata zaruri hai.
